This has been something really tough for me lately... My purpose.
Growing up, my family never really had a lot of money. We spent a lot of our
time doing activities that were free, like going to the ocean, riding bikes, crafting/art projects, hiking/nature walks, etc. Most of our furniture in our home was
purchased at garage sales, and as a child a lot of my clothes were
from a thrift store. Being a single mother, my mom had two jobs to support my little brother
and me. She was a preschool teacher during the week, and on the weekends
she worked as a cashier at a local health food store. I felt really blessed
with her career choices, mainly because there were always an endless amount of
craft supplies for me to dive into from her school, such as: paints, charcoal, water coloring, glue, paste, pom pom fuzzy wuzzys with googlie eyes, you name
it. Plus since she worked at a health food store, we ate really
really well. A vegetarian diet was introduced to me at a very young age, and eating things like kale and swiss chard in my lunches was considered normal (of course I would try to trade them at school for other kids gushers and dunkeroo's, which never worked).
Anyways, my mom always witnessed how creative I was, and after
many years of continuing to make art myself, I've always thought it would be amazing to have my work/creations support me as a career one day. Key word:
ONE DAY... My current career today is teaching Yoga, which I truly am passionate about, but lately I wonder if I need more. These beautiful images I have in my mind to write a book, create a movie, capture a photograph, write a play, design a clothing line, write music, etc! etc! etc! are all just swirling around in my head, going to waste, when they are screaming to come out. Like a trapped, brilliant child I've been underfeeding, just whispering, "don't worry child, I haven't forgotten you, ONE DAY."
Here's the real issue though, I already
have worked in the creative field with fashion/hair/make-up, working runway and print work for magazines, and T.V. up in L.A. Most of my work in that industry was very outside the box or "avant-garde", which I loved, and my inner creative child was overfed to the point of obesity. But as I became more successful, I also became a very toxic person. Everything around me felt like an illusion, they way people treated each other was soo competitive, and who you were as far as being a "somebody that mattered" was all based on your EGO. It was killing me slowly, and the higher up I got on the success ladder, the less I could see the ground and remember what was really important in life.
Then,
it happened. I got in one of the biggest car accidents of my life. I was rear ended by a car going 60mph while stopped at a traffic light, and my whole spine was crunched, knees hit the glove box, and head went straight into the wind shield. The timing was strange because I had just driven home that day from what was probably one of the biggest events in my career, and then on the same day was in one of the biggest car accidents of my life. When big things happen to you like this, it's hard to not pay attention to signs of what the universe is trying to tell you. I visualize a road to your purpose, and I had gone off an exit so far from where I was supposed to be heading, and it took a huge force like the car accident to put me right back on track to my goal. Here I found yoga.
Yoga has saved me, it was the only thing that felt right to begin to heal my body in its fragile state, and I'm grateful for it everyday. I was so inspired that I began to teach it to other people, and felt I was finally doing something with my life that actually mattered, something that was making a true difference in the world. Even to this day I love seeing the difference in people's overall being change from when they first walked in the door, stressed out and angry, to when they walk out, happy, carefree, and almost intoxicated =D The difference is like night and day. I have always enjoyed nurturing/taking care of people, bringing lightness into people's lives, and to this day I still find creativity in creating the dance aspect of my yoga flows. I have taken dance lessons for most of my life, and for my choreography/flows to have a benefit on an alignment/anatomical level as well is such a beautiful blessing of both worlds.
This is why I fear coming back into a workforce as an artist. Simply for the fact that I already have a career in Yoga, which helps so many people, and keeps myself grounded too. My previous job in L.A. taught me that even in your most successful moments of your work, it can all be taken away from you, and when you're on the outside looking in you may ask: did that job really even matter? I guess this introspection is good from time to time. I know I'll continue to create art, but maybe just for myself, and continue with my selfless work in yoga.
<3, A